Parenting
…in doing something. I wonder if this is related to [[hedonic adaptation]], the way that increases or decreases in our emotional well…
Also known as the hedonic treadmill, this is the human tendency to return to a baseline level of (un)happiness after major positive or negative life events. Neither winning the lottery nor losing something of great value produce the permanent change to our level of happiness we might hope for or fear.
I’m supposed to be a different person now that I’ve won a slam. Everyone says so… But I don’t feel Wimbledon has changed me. I feel, in fact, as if I’ve been let in on a dirty little secret: winning changes nothing. Now that I’ve won a slam, I know something that very few people on earth are permitted to know. A win doesn’t feel as good as a loss feels bad, and the good feeling doesn’t last as long as the bad. Not even close. (Andre Agassi, Open: An Autobiography)
…in doing something. I wonder if this is related to [[hedonic adaptation]], the way that increases or decreases in our emotional well…